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I had a fascinating experience this week. On Tuesday I was invited to participate in a half day workshop run by the excellent Royston John of the…
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The Clear Man
The Clear Man
One man's journey to be a better man. I write about getting clear with myself, and trying to be clear with everyone else. I'm not some self-help guru - just an ordinary Dad / husband / guy trying to figure life out. What I'm learning might help you too.
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